近况--額頭有<哄>的媽媽

真喺好懶呀！懶到唔好意思唔還blog債。

首先講吓我近况，開學後我便如常，在上午教舞，下午揪(照顧)女。特別要在此多謝我的丈夫，他使我生活無憂，我オ可以這樣，使出我教女的<本領>，從來都未有認真多謝他，希望他也會看啦！

上星期一，中秋節過後，我的小Duck在學校致電給我，因為肚痛而要去看醫生，一出校門便變回我的多嘴小Duck，一邊行一邊跳呀、叫呀、笑呀！我已經知自己又中計，不過又唔可以話小Duck講大話，我相信她是曾經痛得很利害，所以安全致上，都要看醫生。原來是吃得太多，有大量入，而少量出，所以咪肚痛囉！醫生話還有Ｄ(便便)在裹面，放了出來就ok了！小Duck就是這樣，鍾意吃就吃，講就講，正如在前個星期，她問我：媽媽！點解你好似老過爸爸?額頭又有<哄>，於是自以為教女的機會到啦！我就打蛇隨棍上地答：因為我成日要勞氣教你哋囉，好快老架！我以為她會答：以後少Ｄ激我啦！點知她答：<好啦！我以後激翻多Ｄ爸爸啦！>
激死！完全無話要乖Ｄ，這就是我可愛的小Duck。

Thank you CiCi，如果唔喺你的吹束，我又拿不起枝筆了！還有大佬，幾時都愛錫我和給我支持！Thanks a lot!

〝豬流感個案〞剎入謝家

差不多兩個月了，自從上次臨去美國前一晚寫過後，一直都提不起筆，直至今天有感而發！

本來這篇的標題是〝疑似豬流感個案〞剎入謝家，怎料一日後，真正的確診個案也有一個在謝家。話說丈夫病倒了，見他從流感診所帶回來的药是'特敏福'，我便懷疑他患上豬流感，但他是否認的。這個標題實在太煩悶，但在報章上得知，有女歌手也確診了，她在自己的blog上感謝母親的照顧，母親的偉大和無畏的精神。
相信每位母親遇到這事情，也一樣會無微不至地照顧女兒。不知小女兒何時會寫blog多謝我呢？！很感恩，小女兒已經漸漸康復，她何時懂得寫blog也不重要了！

願每位要照顧患病兒女的父母親健健康康，每次都是兒女們痊癒後，他們就病倒了！所以我也要加油！

Long Vacation (2) 悠長假期(二)

Reminiscence of my childhood summer vacation always embraces me with sheer joyfulness! On the occasions, we cycled to the Stadium or went ice skating with my schoolmates. Roller-skates have not even existed by that time! They were only the four wheels ones. Apart from the inconvenience it brought, we also skated along at my mate’s corridor near her home. Since we were beginners, we made a lot of noises while we were skating and stumbling on the side down the doors of every house. The entire corridor was completely echoed and mingled with our laughter and howling. Due to this intruding noise, the neighbourhoods all opened their doors to see what on earth was going on. Not long afterwards, there was an old woman who couldn’t stand it anymore and eventually exerted her ultimate trick – released her vicious dogs!

Intensely chased by the sturdy dogs with their drooling mouths, not only did I skated and taped like flying, I also could go on the stairs with those skaters! This was how I learnt skating! Although I was grown under restrictions by my family, I have always believed in a free and relaxing summer vacation, or else it shouldn’t be termed as a summer vacation. Therefore, I used to come up with different ideas to ‘bail’ me out to play. Every time before I went out, I would hang the telephone over, I would go home when I finished off and would phone my father, ‘Did you call me? I was chatting with my schoolmates (Thank goodness there wasn’t any “call waiting” function yet!). This brilliant idea of mine, had never failed to work! But after using this method quite frequently, my dad had suspected me. I knew my own personality. If such ruse was revealed by dad, I would be in big trouble… (In Chinese, it can be depicted as "big buck", meaning the trouble is as big as the buck/ wok) Hence I stopped doing that again. And dad did not keep ‘tracing’ me of it. All my summer vacations memories were beautiful!

回憶起兒時的暑假實在是快樂極了！一時到球場踏單車，一時跟同學一齊學溜冰，當年還沒有滚軸溜冰鞋，只是四輪的鞋，而且還要在同學家門外的走廊踏，因為我們都是初學，一邊踏就一邊跌，繼而每家每户的門也拍過，笑聲叫聲響遍整條走廊，師奶亞伯都開門查看，終於有個亞姆忍無可忍，使出她的絕招--------放狗..........，被那隻大狼狗追到"行行聲"，不單只踏得像飛一般，而且還會上樓梯，我就是這樣學識"滚軸溜冰"的了！

雖然自小家教都很嚴，但暑假要過得自由自在，才算是暑假，所似我一定有辦法走出街玩。每次我出門前便會掛起電話，當我玩完回家後，便會致電爸爸：「你有無打電話給我，我剛才和同學講電話(興幸當年還未有call waiting)。」這一招利害，從未試過失手，可惜用得多都被爸爸懷疑，自己知自己事，如被爸爸識穿就"大鑊"，從此便洗手不幹，爸爸也沒有追查下去，我所有暑假的回憶都是美好的！

Long Vacation (1) 悠長假期(一)

The long summer vacation has just begun a month earlier, yet there are already a lot of hardworking mothers whom have prepared a variety of curricular activities and tutorials for their children. I, as a relatively lazy mother, have not applied for any, though. There are only "mom's morning exercise classes" or "mom's badminton classes" every morning and "Mom's swimming classes" and not at least, an indispensable "Mom's homework time period", "cartoon time" in the afternoons at Aberdeen Park underneath the place we live. My baby twins don't have any oppositions on this arrangement, (although little elder sister has also prepared a "healthy lifestyle timetable," but she already had too much spare time.)

I am thankful that I have such fun time to accompany them on the summer holidays. On the other hand, I really admire those mothers who are at work. After working, they can spare some time to take their children to play. The fact is, I already feel utterly exhausted after being with my kids all day, I cannot even imagine multitasking this with a job! I totally admire and salute to those mothers who are at work! They must have excess energy to raise their children in accompany and care. Recalling the summers of my childhood were comparatively delightful …… to be continued.


漫長的暑假提早了一個月開始，但相信很多勤力的媽媽早已為小朋友準備了各樣的興趣班或補習班；相對我這個懶惰的媽媽，什麼興趣班也沒有報，有的只是每早在樓下公園仔的《媽媽早操班》或《媽媽羽毛球班》，下午有《媽媽游泳班》，當然不可缺少的《媽媽功課時段》，還有 《卡通片時間》，小孖女對這安排也沒有異議，(雖然小家姐自己也準備了一個 "健康生活時間表"，但太多自由活動時間。)

我很感恩我有這些時間倍伴她們放暑假，另一方面很欣賞那些在職媽媽，放工後更抽時間倍小朋友玩，我倍她們一整天也覺筋疲力盡，更何況還要返工，佩服！向在職媽媽致敬！

回想自己兒時的暑假是非常快樂...........待續。

2009 Father's Day 父親節

This year, I have arranged a special event for my husband on Father's Day- a family night together in a hotel at the HK Cyber Port. Although it was Father's Day, all programs were actually decided by my baby twins, no matter the location or the food selection were all on their preferences – as they decided, that night was definitely a big meal full of Sushi! Afterwards, we stayed in their rooms to watch their most favourite Cartoons. On the next morning, very unfortunately, the pool wasn't opened for swimming exercise due to the thunder warning. So we all stayed in the room. Those 2 little piggies couldn't stand the boredom, so they tried to muck around with anything possible in the room. Eventually, they discovered the ultimate new land of fun --- the paper curtain! They figured out to lower it down, pretended to be the stage front or TV screen, and started to imitate roles as teachers, and news reporters, etc. Surprisingly, they vividly presented the characters. Those baby twins were indulged in bunches of fun throughout most of the day – kids are just that simple to be gratified.

The twins also arranged shopping for themselves as the next program (it sounds more like to be Children's Day rather than Father's Day), they would strive to get what they granted for. They are innately acknowledged that mom's practice is not that easy to be convinced in buying any junk toys, so my elder twin girl was inspired for a moment and said,
‘Mom, you should buy me a present!’
We all kept in silence and let her carry on.
'You once said the fact I look like dad, therefore I deserve a present because it's Father's day today!’
I gazed into my husband’s eyes and burst out in hilarity that we almost bent over! This amusement kept us in accompany as we were heading along to our home on our walkway. That was the best Father's Day present we have ever!


今年我特別為丈夫安排的父親節節目，就是到數碼港的一間酒店玩一晚。 雖然是父親節，但所有的節目都是由我兩個孖寶决定，無論去什麽地方或吃什麼，其實，都喺佢兩個鐘意的，所以晚餐一定喺勁食壽司啦！跟着全晚的節目都喺在房睇佢哋的至愛卡通。 無奈一早起來雷暴警告，泳池也不開，所以繼續留在房，兩隻小豬終於也忍不住悶，在房裏不停攪東攪西，就給她發現新大陸---紙窗廉。她們將窗廉拉下來扮螢幕，一陣又扮老師，一陣又扮天氣報導員......，又扮得似模似樣，這樣也樂上半天，小朋友就是這樣容易滿足。 佢哋又為自己安排逛玩具店，(似兒童節多過父親節)，一定要有收獲，但佢哋知亞媽不會隨便買玩具，於是大孖靈機一觸 :「亞媽你應該送份禮物給我！」大家都不發一聲讓她繼續說：「你話我似爸爸呀，今日父親節所以我應該有禮物的！」我和丈夫對望後，便笑到前鞠後傾......一邊笑一邊行到門口，父親節禮物就這樣笑了笑吧！

My babies can dance

When I was aged 4, just a baby, loved to dance but never thought of starting over as a dancer in my life. I remembered that I felt very free to dance because I liked the Chinese dancing costume so much. My mom had never expected that could happen to her baby!

Now I'm a mom of a pair of twin baby girls. They also love to dance, especially with me.

Although I gained much in size after giving birth to them, I never give up .... may be there is still a light inside my heart that the energy is always driving me to move on. Really fat mom can dance to fit!

I was quite lucky that my family supported me to go for my dream, the same is now I'm investing on my babies to develop their strengths according to the gifts that God has given them. However, appropriate training and encouragement are crucial to their growth and to help realise their dreams.

If you also agree that and you also discovered your have a heart to dance for keeping your energy up all the time, I can give you a hand to coach you, as well as your babies!

How a fat mom of a pair of twin baby girls could have been a professional TV dancer and a trainer?

This recalled my real life story about:

An ex-professional dancer on TV & concerts, a fat mom of a pair of twin baby girls, also a coach of dancers and trainers now!

How could that be?

Have you ever thought of a dancing pro life could be starting from kindergarden?
- My dancing life actually started from age 4.

If you like your babies to start practice dancing early like me .... come and join my members club. I'll share with you how.

I have never thought that I could meet a future star when I was still in middle school - Guess who I met?

Just highlight the empty space in bracket (Aaron Kwok).

I can't imagine that my dream would actually come true - to be a TV dancer before age 21:
- I joined the TVB in HK and started my dancer career from 19, I practiced as a professional dancer to experience and grow together with many celebrities and superstars, through hips of concerts in HK and overseas. I still miss these friends very much!

Was I simply lucky to have met my second half who really shares the similar value to live happily ever like a princess and a prince?

- Thank God I have met a man of treasure in my life: my husband Albert. He is learning with me together the free recipes of shaping a happy and healthy family.

My bright happy and sweatie dancer workdays have gone flying swiftly within the golden decade ....

Then I started a more challenging life with a greater mission: as a dance professional trainer as well as a fat mom of a pair of twin girls (my lovely little ladies Percy and Perky), always taking care of my babies especially they were early delivered in U.S.! Thanks to Aaron for letting us visit despite his extremely busy superstar work!

In the dancing classes I'm coaching, I can always read so many free happy faces from the energetic dancing buddies.

I can assure you that: a fatty mom can dance!

Happiness can be so simple and free! If you would like to join me to share your dancing energy and experience the happiness together, just post your inspirations; your dancing dreams; and your experience here.

Welcome to join as a member of our dancing pro network to keep you updating!